Your History is Not Your Destiny
Are you exhausted trying to get everything right?
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Break Free from Your Inner Critic: Your Journey to Authentic Living Starts Here
"Perfection is the lowest standard..." - Tony Robbins
Are you exhausted from constantly trying to meet impossible standards? Do you find yourself bending over backwards, trying to get everything right? Do you know you sabotage yourself by saying, "Yes!" to everyone else and ,"NO" to yourself?
I've been there and just like you, I spent years chasing gold stars and validation, trying to please everyone around me – starting with attempting to reply to my father's high expectations and eventually extending that need for validation to every relationship in my life.
The Hidden Cost of Being "Perfect"
I know what it's like to:
- Feel trapped in a cycle of overachieving and then burning out
- Get what I want but then feel empty afterwards
- Wake up with the same looping thoughts running around in my head
- Struggle with anxiety because I'm never feeling quite "good enough" and there's nowhere safe
- Smile on the outside while crumbling on the inside
Those high standards that once earned praise became impossible to achieve and I discovered this the hard way when my mother's passing shattered my carefully constructed world. Suddenly, none of my coping skills worked. I couldn't figure out what was wrong with me. I felt lost, swimming in medications and therapy, and feeling more alone than ever.
The Power of a Decision
I made a decision to take my life back. I was tired of feeling dizzy, feeling like I was useless and that I couldn't contribute the way I wanted to.
I stopped taking the medications (under the supervision of my team), I stopped going to therapy and I started learning about my emotions. I became a Certified Emotion Code Practitioner, then a Quantum Healer, then a Soul Speak Practitioner. I kept hiring coaches and taking certifications, easily falling back into my old patterns of getting validation from the outside.
UNTIL I finally discovered the simplest, easiest and most elegant system to transform my old internal operating systems.
I found a repeatable, reliable system of transformation, that could step-by-step help me recover my authenticity, joy and passion and remind me that my history is not my destiny and every moment is a new moment to create a new story.
Your Turning Point is Here
Here's what I discovered – and what I want you to know: You are NOT broken.
You don't need fixing.
You have everything inside of you already--we've all been given the gift of healing ourselves with the right conditions and support.
The Right Support
With the right support, you CAN change your life and they can help you:
- Transform your perfectionist and pleasing patterns into authentic strengths
- Break free from the approval-seeking cycle -AND- find your own internal validation
- Create a life that feels true to YOU, where you can show up authentically no matter who you're with or what's going on
- Find psychological safety along with the inner identity of someone who can handle anything that comes your way
Why Work With Me?
My journey from perfectionist people-pleaser to empowered coach gives me a unique understanding of your struggles. Through extensive training, certification and testing, I've developed a proven approach called, "Your History is Not Your Destiny" to help women like you stop sabotaging with outdated behaviors and start thriving with an updated operating system.
Just like your computer needs updates to keep up with the times, so does our mental operating systems, and the ways we think, feel and act in life.
Life is guaranteed to change and we have to keep up with the changes otherwise, we'll be forever trapped in our same, old, tired looping thoughts getting the same old results.
Take Your First Step to Freedom
Are you ready to discover what's really holding you back? Take a simple first step.
Answer a few questions in a 5-minute "Saboteur Assessment" to unlock:
- Your personalized 11-page report (FREE) detailing your sabotaging patterns and the impact on your performance, wellbeing and relationships
- A powerful and handy guide top: "Harness Your Strengths, Defeat Your Saboteurs" (FREE)
- Lastly, my support and expertise in a complimentary one-on-one Strategy Support Call (Valued at $500, yours FREE)
During your Strategy Support Call, we'll:
- Identify your specific sabotaging patterns
- Give you a strategy to help you break free from perfectionism
- Design your next actionable step toward your authentic life
Your New Story Starts Now
Remember: Your history is not your destiny. Every moment offers a fresh opportunity to write a new chapter. As Buddhism teaches us, everything changes – including you and your circumstances. Will you allow this moment to be your turning point?
Not quite ready? Sign up below to receive "9 Ways We All Sabotage Ourselves" and start identifying your top 3 patterns. Understanding is the first step to transformation.
Your journey to freedom from perfectionism is waiting. Take the first step today.
More About Your Coach

A Word from Lili...
"Do you know any women biz owners who are overwhelmed & exhausted trying to get everything right?
Through my coaching & online program, I help these tired women find more energy so they can perform better.
In fact, one of my clients, let's call her Mandy, went from being completely overwhelmed feeling anxious and filled with self-doubt to discovering inner peace, confidence and grace.
Having faced similar challenges myself struggling with mental health and addiction, I know firsthand how life-changing this work can be.
Do you know any women biz owners who might be struggling with their inner critic right now?"
This is my area of expertise, allow me to serve you so you can discover that your history is not your destiny.
Every moment is a new moment to shift into a NEW YOU.
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